The events of the last few weeks have really made me wonder about alot of things..Like LOve and relastionships..!! Defining Love is the toughest task on this planet..Different people.different meanings..Defining a relationship still an easier task..Relationship is a connection made on d basis of trust,love,commitment and endless giving. But when i look at the incidents that take place it makes me wonder is there anythin called as EVERLASTING LOVE OR FOREVER WITH U......Is it easy to trust anyone..?? why cant we do so..didnt pur elders trust one another..why was it easier in their times and ours???? When asked this question people strart the blame game, men say its women who are bitches,women say nah we are innocent its men who are dogs...!! Therefore leading to an endless argument with no answers As we have read,heard and watched in the movies all about true love and all..does it really exist in real life..We all say we want love like that..then why dont we all make an effort to do so.Why do we hurt each other..WHY???? Don't once we put ourselves in the other person's shoes and think how much it hurts.. don't we even realise how much heartache it would cause..How afraid we'll feel when trusting anybody..men or women, heart is a heart the pain is piercing..! People say life is changing we need to think about our carriers and all dat bullshit...Well according to me it's a bunch of bullshit...Love is love people ....How can u leave somebody alone and devastated to make your life..What d u all think that the other person won't undrstand your goals and ambitons.Well in my opimion she/he will coz love is all about understandin and if they dont well too bad they are'nt worth it..! Why is it so diificult to come face to face with the truth why do u have to make so many excuses in d name of other things..People say it's the other person who makes it complicated or OH! NOO we can't hurt anyone, they have done alt..Really..guys when u are doin so u are hurting ur so called other half more than anythin..!! when people drift apart they say, Oh well!!! u know it was him or her..the distance came in between us or well they went with someone else...ahh we fell out of love..!! CRAPPPPPPPP again huh..!! how can anythin come in between pwople when u love one another another excuse is well we want to enjoy and not stagnate..Guys enjoyin neccassarily doesn't mean humping anyone u see..enjoying means relivin urselves from stress, there are lots other ways of doin so..!!! sometimes we let li'll arguments come in between us and we decide we have to leave d person..WHyyyy...why do so dont we fight woth our friends or parents or siblings do we leave them..Than why this person doesnt he/she special to u...More special than anyone when u can patch up with ur parents and peers why not that someone special..Arent they supposed to b closer to us than anyone!! Another thing most people belive what their friends or anyone has to say about their other half..i ask why....did u believe then before askin them out or anythin huh?? In love or anythin You are just supposed to believe the person u are with not the whole world..!!Coz in a relationship 2 is a company 3 is a crowd.!!! How can u let anyone break the trust u share with someone..!! In d end all i would say is no one is to b blamed..Its we who is to b blamed..Its we who takes people for granted and than blame it on evry other thing...Its just US..WE all have to work hard enuff so dat the essence and beauty of love doesn't die and d generation next to us gets a GREAt example about love..!!